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By Lisa Lewis, Therapist for Midlife and Empty Nest Women In my last blog post, Being a Victim of Circumstance: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Life , I talked about how we often attribute our feelings and results to the situations around us. That post introduced the idea that what truly impacts our experience isn’t the circumstance itself — it’s our thoughts  about it. This week, we’re taking that concept a step further by diving deeper into understanding our thou

Have you ever wondered why your life is going the way it is? Have you ever felt powerless to take action because of your circumstances? Or maybe you’ve wanted different results in your life but weren’t sure how to make that happen? If so, you’re not alone. Many of us—especially as midlife women and moms- find ourselves feeling stuck at times. We want to make changes, but it can feel like life is happening to  us instead of for  us. We can easily fall into the mindset of being

For a long time, I’ve felt the gentle prompting to share my story — not just the polished parts, but the honest, messy journey of how I found healing through faith, therapy, and God’s grace. It’s not a story I’ve told often, but I know how powerful it is when someone shares their heart and you realize you’re not alone . My hope is that my story will remind you that no matter where you’ve been or what you’ve walked through, healing is possible — and God can use every part of y

If you’ve ever set a boundary and immediately felt guilty, you’re not alone. In my last blog post, The Power of Boundaries: Choosing What to Let Into Your Life , I shared how boundaries protect our time, energy, and relationships by letting in what supports us and closing the door on what doesn’t. Yet, even when we understand their importance, setting boundaries often stirs up feelings of guilt. Knowing the value of boundaries doesn’t automatically make them easy to set. More

The word boundaries gets used a lot these days, but what does it really mean? Simply put, boundaries are the lines that define what’s ours and what isn’t. They help us protect our time, energy, and well-being. Think of a home with fences, doors, and locks. The homeowner decides who comes in and who stays out. In the same way, we need emotional and relational boundaries to protect what matters most. As Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend write in their book Boundaries: “We n

Have you heard of ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences)? Research shows that childhood trauma—such as abuse, neglect, or growing up around substance abuse or mental illness—can deeply impact both mental and physical health in adulthood. Adults with high ACE scores may face challenges like anxiety, depression, substance use, relationship struggles, or even chronic health issues. This happens because children living in unsafe or stressful environments often stay in a constant fi